Listening
Quotations
“I believe the greatest gift I can conceive of having from
anyone is to be seen by them, heard by them, to be
understood and touched by them”
Virginia Satir
”Only
that in you which is me can hear what I’m saying.”
Ram Dass
"Effective
listeners remember that words
have no meaning - people have
meaning. The
assignment of meaning to a term is an internal process;
meaning comes from inside us. And although our experiences,
knowledge and attitudes differ, we often misinterpret each
other’s messages while under the illusion that a common
understanding has been achieved."
Larry Barker
"One
friend, one person who is truly understanding, who takes
the trouble to listen to us as we consider a problem, can
change our whole outlook on the world."
Dr. E. H. Mayo
"Man's
inability to communicate is a result of his failure to
listen effectively."
Carl Rogers
"Listening
is a magnetic and strange thing, a creative force. The
friends who listen to us are the ones we move toward. When
we are listened to, it creates us, makes us unfold and
expand."
Karl Menninger
"To say
that a person feels listened to means a lot more than just
their ideas get heard. It's a sign of respect. It makes
people feel valued."
Deborah Tannen